Tina: Germany to Buenos Aires
A German couples consultant who followed her heart across the Atlantic. Now she helps other intercultural couples navigate the challenges she faced - while learning to live with Argentine chaos.
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“What started as a one-night stand in Miami turned into a long-distance relationship between Germany and Argentina... and now, ten years later, here we are in Buenos Aires, married and building our life together.”
- •Met Argentine husband in Miami
- •Navigated long-distance for years
- •Now hosts 'International Love Story' podcast
- •Helps other intercultural couples
## A Miami Origin Story
Tina's Buenos Aires story begins, improbably, in Miami. A German abroad, an Argentine traveler, and what Tina bluntly calls "a one-night stand" that somehow evolved into something real.
"We did long-distance between Germany and Argentina for years," she explains. "It was hard. But every time I visited Buenos Aires, something pulled me in. The city has this energy - European elegance mixed with Latin passion."
The Move
In February 2024, Tina and her husband Nacho made it official: they would build their life in Buenos Aires. She arrived with two checked bags, a carry-on, and years of anticipation.
"I actually feel more at home here than I ever did in Germany," she admits. "There's something about the warmth of the people, the importance of relationships, the way life happens in the streets rather than behind closed doors."
The Culture Shocks
Despite her connection to the city, Tina faced adjustment challenges:
**The Economy**: "Inflation above 100% is not easy to keep up with, especially if you're not used to it. Prices change weekly. You have to stay constantly alert."
**The Bureaucracy**: "Opening a bank account, getting a DNI, setting up internet - everything requires patience and paperwork. In Germany, we're efficient to a fault. Here, relationships matter more than processes."
**The Noise**: "Buenos Aires never sleeps. Which is amazing... until you need to sleep."
Building a Life (and a Business)
Tina is now building her couples consulting practice, specializing in - naturally - intercultural relationships. She also hosts the "International Love Story" podcast, interviewing couples from around the world who've navigated the challenges she's living.
"My small wins keep me going," she says. "Doing grocery shopping while having small talk in Spanish. Walking the dog and connecting with other dog owners. These moments make me feel like I belong here."
The Argentina Paradox
"What should people consider before moving here?" she asks rhetorically. "You need patience and flexibility. Things rarely go as planned. But if you come with curiosity and openness, if you let go of the idea that everything has to be 'efficient' or 'on time,' you might find something more valuable than efficiency - you might find connection."
The Politics of Dinner
Tina was shocked by how openly Argentines discuss politics - and how quickly they move from heated argument to shared dessert. "Within two hours, people can organize a strike with thousands in the streets. They're vocal, passionate, and strong in their opinions. At family dinners, voices get loud. But then everyone shares dessert together. It's not a deal breaker here - it's just part of the culture."
Would she recommend the move? "Absolutely. But understand that Buenos Aires plays by its own set of rules - and those rules keep changing. Stay flexible. And learn Spanish before you come. It makes everything easier."
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